Fake It Till You Make It? I Don't Think So....

You know I find it funny when we are so down and sad, the people around us even strangers were trying to cheer us up. We often hear them saying: move on, let him/her go, I know you're strong, you will be okay, everything happens for a reason so on and so forth. Usually when everything's not right and our life is in a mess, the people who love us say all those things just to make us feel better. But who are they to tell you what to do? When in the first place they have no idea how much pain you are going through? They have no idea how painful it is for you to let go of the thing or someone that you love so much. Right now, I'm in the darkest part of my life. I'm going through so much pain and honestly, I can't let go of someone that I love yet. Not now......I can't do it yet....not now and I mean it. This is all I can advice to those people who goes through the same feelings that I am right now. Don't hide your feelings/emotion. Cry all you want, scream all you want, do everything you want, express what you feel inside to make you feel better. I am not saying that this will help you to ease the pain but atleast you are trying to express what you felt inside. Don't pretend that you're okay when you knew that deep inside, you are in so much pain.