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Saturday, August 8, 2009

When Over Is Over!

I don't think I'm a bad person at all. Maybe there were times, I made mistakes and hurt people accidentally but that does not make me a bad person, right?
I have something to confess.
For few months, I was bothered by how I acted and treated the people I know...especially the people who are close to me. See, I have a friend whom I stopped talking to because I was mad at this person. Let us say, I hate this person but my Father in law keep reminding me not to use the word hate to refer to a person coz we should not hate a certain person. We can say we dislike them but not hate them. Okay, I dislike this person because, this person lied to me too many times. Sometimes, I thought, did this person even care how I think of him/her after I caught him/her that he/she lied? Did this person has an idea how I dislike him/her for telling lies then in the end I found out that what he/she was telling to me was all lie? I even hated myself for believing of what he/she said to me, everytime I found out that he/she was lying. For how many stories he/she made...for all the lies he/she told...I came to the point when I don't want to talk to him/her anymore. And that was it...I told myself this friendship is over coz I cannot trust this person. There's no sense of having a friend when you cannot even trust them. I stopped talking to this friend of mine coz I was fed up of everything he/she said. I dunno when to believe him/her anymore.
How can a person lie so easily? How can they make up stories and not even bothered the consequences after they were caught lying? I'm not a perfect person and am not tryin' to be. I did not say, I did not even lied once. I lied too...but I believe that there are certain levels of lying. This person I'm talking about is just a total LIAR.

5 comments:

Allen's Darling said...

Hi Rose

SOmetimes, no matter we tried to pacify the situation but sometimes we need to let it go. Be proud of yourself, finally you come to the point that you need to let it go him/her. But i doesn't mean you won't talk to him/her forever. It's just that you need time to lie low also. Right. Keep up. And God bless!

Windmill said...

Hi GreenRose,

Returning your visit. :)

There's more to life than liars. Don't let that lie diminish your zest for friendships.

Have a great weekend there.

Windy

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Tey said...

a lie is a lie. to ask why some people lie? it sometimes depend. but most of the time, it is for selfish reason. Thanks for sharing
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